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Victoria Hoyt, LCMFT, LMFT

Seasoned marriage and family therapist
  • 27 years experience
  • Family and couples focus
  • Trauma and addiction expertise

About Victoria Hoyt

Victoria Hoyt brings 27 years of clinical experience to work with individuals, couples, and families facing addictions, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy concerns, anxiety and depression, grief, parenting challenges, and life transitions. She has worked with a wide age range of clients from children to older adults and has experience in juvenile residential settings, supporting military families on an army base, and providing care through mental health and addiction programs as well as church-based counseling.

Victoria holds LCMFT (Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist) and LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) credentials and practices from Kansas. She draws on a flexible set of methods, including Emotional Focus Therapy, strength-based and trauma-informed approaches, and cognitive behavioral therapy, selecting techniques that match each person or family’s needs. Her work often addresses attachment and family dynamics, addiction recovery, obsessive-compulsive behaviors, and the complex effects of trauma.

Known for a focused, compassionate manner, Victoria emphasizes honesty, respect, and practical strategies that help clients identify strengths, clarify goals, and build coping skills. She considers counseling her calling and aims to support people as they pursue meaningful change and relief from persistent problems.

Outside of clinical work she is a wife of 42 years and a parent and grandparent, and she continues to work full time at a mental health facility. Victoria finds professional satisfaction when clients meet their goals and appreciates those who reach out for help.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issues

Also Specializes In

Stress, AnxietyGriefParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Gottman Method Mindfulness Therapy Motivational Interviewing Narrative Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Victoria Hoyt have?

Victoria Hoyt has 27 years of professional experience in mental health and family therapy.

Is Victoria Hoyt a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the credentials LCMFT and LMFT. LCMFT stands for Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist and LMFT stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. License details include KS LCMFT LCMFT 688 and OK LMFT LMFT01263.

In which languages does Victoria Hoyt provide therapy?

Victoria provides therapy in English.

Where is Victoria Hoyt located?

Victoria is located in Kansas.

How can I work with Victoria Hoyt as my therapist?

You can work with Victoria through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Victoria Hoyt work with international clients?

Victoria Hoyt does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Victoria Hoyt cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Therapeutic approaches and online care that fit your life



Victoria integrates evidence-informed approaches to address patterns of thought, behavior, and relationships. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns and can be effective for anxiety, depression, and many stress-related concerns. Attachment-Based Therapy explores how early relationship experiences influence current patterns in close relationships and is useful for couples work, family dynamics, abandonment and attachment issues. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify values and take committed action while developing skills to accept difficult thoughts and feelings - it often supports work on stress, avoidance, and meaningful life changes.

Finding the right fit is part of the therapeutic process. Victoria works collaboratively with clients to select or combine approaches based on individual goals, preferences, and the issues at hand, adjusting methods as progress unfolds. Licensed professionals tailor care to meet each client where they are.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility - sessions can occur by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit varied schedules and needs. These options make it easier to maintain continuity of care, access timely support, and work on goals from home or work with the same therapeutic focus as in-person work.

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