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Paul Heft, LIMHP

LGBT-affirming Nebraska LIMHP focused on recovery
  • LGBT affirming care
  • Severe mental illness support
  • Calm non judgmental approach

About Paul Heft

Paul Heft is a Nebraska-based LIMHP - a Licensed Independent Mental Health Practitioner - who helps clients translate difficult experiences into practical, sustainable change. He specializes in supporting LGBT+ individuals and people coping with severe mental illness, and he pays particular attention to men's emotional health in a culture that often discourages emotional expression. Paul emphasizes an individualized approach that identifies specific roadblocks and develops concrete solutions tailored to each person.

Clients can expect a calm, non-judgmental presence focused on validating what they are going through and uncovering the sources of stress that interfere with daily life. His work spans relationship concerns, trauma and abuse, eating and body image issues, depression, anxiety, addiction, bipolar and other mood disorders, and challenges related to family, career, sleep, and major life transitions.

Paul integrates clinical methods to help people build skills, strengthen relationships, and move toward lasting change. He frames seeking help as a sign of strength and honors the often-challenging step of starting therapy. He communicates in a straightforward, empathetic manner while partnering with clients to set goals and track progress.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

LGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseEating disordersDepression

Also Specializes In

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsSleeping disordersCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Additional Focus Areas

Antisocial personalityAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityDissociationDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesGender dysphoriaHIV / AIDSImpulsivityMen's issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injury

Therapeutic Approach

Attachment-Based Therapy Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Existential Therapy Hypnotherapy Mindfulness Therapy Narrative Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy Somatic Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Paul Heft have?

Paul Heft has 5 years of clinical experience working with a range of mental health concerns.

Is Paul Heft a licensed therapist?

Yes. He holds the credential LIMHP, which stands for Licensed Independent Mental Health Practitioner. His license is listed as NE LIMHP 2845.

In which languages does Paul Heft provide therapy?

Paul provides therapy in English.

Where is Paul Heft located?

Paul is located in Nebraska.

How can I work with Paul Heft as my therapist?

You can work with Paul through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Paul Heft work with international clients?

Paul does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Paul Heft cost?

Costs can vary depending on factors such as location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Approaches that guide online therapy and care



Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current patterns and emotional responses. It helps people understand and improve how they connect with others, which can be useful for relationship difficulties, family of origin issues, and healing from attachment-related trauma.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy - DBT - teaches practical skills for managing intense emotions, reducing self-destructive behaviors, and improving interpersonal effectiveness. It is often used when mood instability, impulsivity, or self-harm are concerns and can support people working with severe mental illness.

Mindfulness Therapy encourages present-focused awareness and gentle acceptance of thoughts and feelings. It complements other approaches by helping clients reduce reactivity, improve stress management, and build consistent coping practices.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. Paul works collaboratively with clients and other licensed professionals to tailor methods based on each person’s needs, goals, and preferences, adjusting the plan as progress unfolds.

Online sessions by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging offer flexibility for people with busy schedules, caregiving responsibilities, mobility limits, or those who live outside urban centers. These options make it easier to maintain regular contact, practice new skills between sessions, and access care from the place that works best for the client.

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