John Alilovich, LMFT
Experienced California LMFT with relationship expertise
- 40 years experience
- LMFT in California
- Relationship and trauma focus
About John Alilovich
John Alilovich is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California with a long history of public and private work in behavioral health. He spent more than fifteen years working for the county mental health department serving children and families, concentrating on substance addiction, domestic violence, parenting challenges, marriage and relationship concerns, various forms of abuse, and the needs of LGBTQ families. Over the same period he launched a private practice and has maintained a steady caseload for about 40 years, bringing seasoned perspective to a wide range of presenting issues.
His therapeutic approach is warm and personal, centered on treating each person as the expert on their own life. John emphasizes collaboration, working with clients to set realistic goals and develop practical solutions that fit their circumstances. He brings sensitivity, respect, and genuine curiosity to the clinical relationship, attending to each client as a unique individual.
Clinically, John draws from evidence-informed methods including Emotion Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, mindfulness practices, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). By learning about a client s story and priorities he tailors an approach that integrates these modalities as appropriate. He encourages those seeking change and offers steady support for the process of building a more fulfilling life.
His therapeutic approach is warm and personal, centered on treating each person as the expert on their own life. John emphasizes collaboration, working with clients to set realistic goals and develop practical solutions that fit their circumstances. He brings sensitivity, respect, and genuine curiosity to the clinical relationship, attending to each client as a unique individual.
Clinically, John draws from evidence-informed methods including Emotion Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, mindfulness practices, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). By learning about a client s story and priorities he tailors an approach that integrates these modalities as appropriate. He encourages those seeking change and offers steady support for the process of building a more fulfilling life.
Areas of Expertise
Primary Focus
Also Specializes In
Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD
Additional Focus Areas
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCodependencyDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessInfidelityIntellectual disabilityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualityWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues
Therapeutic Approach
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Existential Therapy Mindfulness Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Somatic Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy Internal Family Systems
Frequently Asked Questions
How much experience does John Alilovich have?
John Alilovich has 40 years of experience.
Is John Alilovich a licensed therapist?
Yes. He holds the credential LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. License details are CA LMFT MFT27006.
In which languages does John Alilovich provide therapy?
John provides therapy in English.
Where is John Alilovich located?
John is located in California.
How can I work with John Alilovich as my therapist?
You can work with John Alilovich through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
Does John Alilovich work with international clients?
Yes, John Alilovich works with international clients.
How much does therapy with John Alilovich cost?
The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.
How can I get started with therapy?
Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Just click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.
Approach-Focused Online Therapy with Experienced LMFT
John integrates several practical approaches that translate well to online work. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps clients identify and shift unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns, making it useful for depression, anxiety, stress, and many everyday challenges. Attachment-Based Therapy explores early relationship patterns and how they affect current connections, offering a way to address intimacy, abandonment, and family-of-origin issues. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes a respectful, nonjudgmental stance in which the therapist listens deeply and supports clients in finding their own solutions, which can be especially helpful for building self-esteem and navigating life transitions.Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. John works with clients to determine which methods fit their goals, preferences, and life context, and adapts techniques over time as progress unfolds. This collaborative stance helps clients feel involved and empowered in their care.
Online therapy with licensed professionals offers flexibility and accessibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options make it easier to fit sessions into busy schedules, maintain continuity during life changes, and access support from different locations while working with a therapist whose methods match the client s needs.