Bilkan Kilicer, BACP

Integrative trauma-informed counsellor

Trauma recovery support
Relationship and family
Flexible online sessions

About Bilkan Kilicer

Bilkan Kilicer is an integrative psychodynamic counsellor who blends attention to present-day challenges with exploration of how earlier experiences continue to shape current patterns. With six years of clinical experience, Bilkan focuses on helping people work through trauma, relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression, self-esteem concerns, and a wide range of life transitions. She brings warmth, patience, and empathy to sessions, aiming to create a compassionate space where clients can move at a pace that feels manageable.

Bilkan believes therapy is rooted in connection and curiosity - a collaborative process of getting to know oneself more deeply, identifying repeating patterns that feel stuck, and discovering practical ways to move forward. Her approach centers on listening without judgment and offering thoughtful reflection so clients feel supported as they explore both immediate problems and the past influences that contribute to them.

Bilkan is a member of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy), a professional body for counsellors and psychotherapists in the United Kingdom. She accepts new clients, including international clients, and offers flexible ways to meet and work together online.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuse Self esteem Depression

Also Specializes In

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSelf-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Existential Therapy Mindfulness Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Bilkan Kilicer have?

Bilkan Kilicer has six years of experience.

Is Bilkan Kilicer a licensed therapist?

Yes. Bilkan holds the BACP credential - the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.

In which languages does Bilkan Kilicer provide therapy?

Bilkan provides therapy in English.

Where is Bilkan Kilicer located?

Bilkan is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Bilkan Kilicer as my therapist?

You can work with Bilkan Kilicer through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Bilkan Kilicer work with international clients?

Yes, Bilkan Kilicer works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Bilkan Kilicer cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Therapeutic approaches and online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) encourages people to notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then clarify personal values and take actions that align with what matters. It can help with anxiety, low mood, and motivation when life feels overwhelming. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current ways of connecting with others; it supports work on intimacy, trust, abandonment concerns, and patterns that affect family and romantic relationships. Client-Centered Therapy places the client at the heart of the process, offering nonjudgmental listening and empathic reflection so people can explore their experience and arrive at their own insights and solutions.

Finding the right therapeutic approach is part of the work. Bilkan will collaborate with each person to identify methods that fit their needs, goals, and preferences, adjusting the approach as progress is made and circumstances change.

Online therapy with video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging offers practical flexibility for people balancing work, family, or living in different time zones. These formats make it easier to maintain continuity of care, access licensed professionals from where you are, and choose the communication style that feels most comfortable at any stage of therapy.

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