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Alexander Gordon, LMFT

LMFT supporting stress and relationships
  • Attachment-informed care
  • Goal-focused sessions
  • Video phone chat messaging

About Alexander Gordon

Alexander Gordon is a licensed psychotherapist in California with three years of clinical experience who focuses on helping people navigate stress, anxiety, addictions, depression, and major life changes. As an LMFT - a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - he brings a developmental psychology background to his work, using that perspective to understand how life stages and relationships shape thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.

He practices with a client-centered mindset, creating a supportive, nonjudgmental environment where careful listening during initial sessions helps him form a holistic view of each person's story. From that foundation he collaborates with clients to set clear, achievable goals and to track progress over time. His integrated approach draws on several evidence-informed methods, including cognitive-behavioral techniques, solution-focused strategies, Gestalt ideas, and mindfulness-based practices, tailoring interventions to address each client's unique needs.

Alexander emphasizes collaboration and practical skills, combining reflective exploration with actionable tools to manage symptoms and improve relationships. He works with a range of concerns such as attachment issues, family and communication problems, grief, trauma, ADHD, and substance use, adapting methods to fit the situation. He invites prospective clients to discuss their goals and explore whether his style and expertise are a good match for their needs.

Areas of Expertise

Also Specializes In

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changes

Additional Focus Areas

Attachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksSelf-loveSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Existential Therapy Mindfulness Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Alexander Gordon have?

He has 3 years of professional experience as a psychotherapist.

Is Alexander Gordon a licensed therapist?

Yes. He holds an LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. His California license number is CA LMFT 140009.

In which languages does Alexander Gordon provide therapy?

He provides therapy in English.

Where is Alexander Gordon located?

He is based in California.

How can I work with Alexander Gordon as my therapist?

You can work with Alexander Gordon through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Alexander Gordon work with international clients?

Alexander Gordon does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Alexander Gordon cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Just click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

How Alexander’s Approaches Translate to Online Care

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on patterns of relating and emotional bonds developed over a lifetime. In online sessions this approach helps clients explore how attachment history influences current relationships, intimacy, and feelings of safety. Client-Centered Therapy centers the client's own experience and pacing, offering a supportive space where the therapist follows the client’s lead to deepen self-understanding and clarify goals. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, offers practical techniques to identify unhelpful thoughts and change behaviors, which can be useful for anxiety, depression, and stress management in virtual sessions.

Finding the right combination of approaches is part of the therapeutic process, and Alexander collaborates with clients to determine what fits best based on their needs, goals, and preferences. That collaborative process may involve trying different strategies and adjusting the plan over time so therapy stays relevant and effective.

Online therapy provides flexible options for engagement - video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging - allowing clients to access licensed professionals from home or other convenient locations. These formats support continuity of care, make scheduling easier around busy lives, and allow therapists and clients to focus on building practical skills and insight together.

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